Sorry I didn't see this earlier. It looks like us being out of sync was finally resolved (some kind of IPFS-ism I am always surprised can get this bad).
I can't do too much to help but do remember that you are never imposing when you text, or anything.
I also wish it were easier to make and maintain connections, these days. At least I am grateful that we have still managed to stay in touch after all of these years.